Christian Living
Lisa is in her early 50″s and a single mom. She lives in Ghana with her only daughter and child Becky. Becky is almost done with high school, she hopes to become a lawyer someday.
Lisa is looking forward to seeing Becky’s dream of becoming a lawyer fulfilled. But in recent times she’s had some concerns. She’s uncomfortable with the kind of association her teenage daughter has been keeping of late. These new group of friends seem to occupy most of Becky’s time. When they’re not in school, they’re out partying or visiting with another group of friends. Lisa became very troubled. These associations could ruin her daughter’s future. But the young lady doesn’t seem to see it that way. The more Lisa tried to caution Becky the farther she seemed to be driving her away and more towards her friends.
Lisa needed to talk with someone, and fast too.
She came across our online counselling group, Talk with Grace Obomanu, and she decided to drop a message asking her help.
First we needed to get Becky’s opinion on her mom’s concerns. So we put a call across to her, and it was a different story altogether.
Becky feels her mother is overbearing, wouldn’t let her socialize with her peers, wouldn’t let her visit them or them her. Becky said her mom shouts all the time and seldom listens to what she has to say.
Becky claims she makes efforts to stay away from her mom because of her behavior. She said she wishes her mom could be more understanding and friendly.
Apparently, daughter and child were seeing things from their own perspectives. Lisa doesn’t want to lose her only child to teenage deliquency and Becky doesn’t want to remain a baby forever.
This observation was communicated to both of them.
Becky was also thankful that TWGO intervened. She promised to be more understanding of her mom and to relate more with her to allay her fears. And Lisa accepted her mistakes promising to engage her daughter more rather than control her.
Their relationship would heal and become better.
Praise God!
